Let him be a man
who will not date me out of loneliness, but out of true interest.
But what is a relationship born
out of loneliness?
Misery. Misery from unmeetable expectations from an
unrealistic responsibility.
When you date out of
loneliness, you are not asking anything of your partner except for company. You are not interested in character, or
habits, but just the mere presence of someone—anyone. And those who move
quickly often deny their non-negotiables whereas those willing to wait—though
they wait—will be much more satisfied in who they have awaited.
Where before it was about mere occupancy,
now it becomes about something much deeper.
Character.
And be assured that character
and vacancy are not on the same clock.
A date born out of loneliness meets its expiration immediately, whereas
a date set on character affords mileage to be had, and, truly, a merrier ride.
