Monday, April 9, 2012

Day 156

“Hey kiddo, can you take care of this for me?”

In the back of the office was a bin for files to be shredded, and it wasn’t unusual for Mr. Lamlich to make his rounds once a month.

“Sure thing.”

She smiled and reached over to receive a large plastic bag, filled to the brim with wrinkled papers.

“This sure is heavy,” she said, and peered through the plastic.

“Yeah,” he murmured.  “If you see anything in there you like, it’s yours.”

Confused, she tilted her head and ran her fingers over the thin plastic.

“There’s a Bible in here, Mr. Lamlich,” she said, puzzled, “that’s a pretty heavy thing to get rid of…”

Without pause, he said, “Well, it was my son’s, and he died about a year ago, and it just makes me and the Mrs. sad, lookin’ at it, you know.  His name is in gold on the front, can’t really give it away.  Bad memories, you know.  He never read it much anyway.”

His eyes were wet, and they talked a moment about his late son.  He had worked in construction, and didn’t lead a very healthy lifestyle.  Blood pressure was high.  Just not a good life.

When they said their goodbyes, she walked back to the shredder, and peeled open the bag.  She held the Bible in her hands and wondered if it was right to shred God’s Word.  Mulling it over, she decided to hang onto it for a time—you never know when you could use an extra Bible.  The rest of the papers toppled out and into the canister, but something caught her eye.

Now, if Julie was not known for anything else, she was known for her planner.  Everything in her life was packed away into pages recording her trials, accomplishments, and even ordinary day-to-day tasks.  So when her eyes came upon the words Daily Journal, she stopped, delicately picking up the weathered book.

He said anything, right?  She thought to herself.


On her way home from work, the two items sat in her passenger seat, and she wondered at the pain of a father who had lost his only son.  At home, she made herself some tea and cozied up on the couch.  She read through some other books, but, distracted, her mind flashed back to the muddied pages.

Picking up the journal, she prayed that God would lead her thoughts.

Neat handwriting lined its pages.  Shifting from blue ink to red ink to green.  He never wrote in black.  Hospital visits, time in jail, a DUI, job interviews, heart surgery, medication, not being able to afford medication, his parents—he spoke of it all.  But mostly his thoughts revolved around his troubled marriage.  His wife, Sara.

He wrote about the times they fought, the nights she would leave him, and spoke of the few times where it seemed their marriage was healing.

Sometimes he skipped writing for months.

And as the months passed, his handwriting grew wilder and wilder.

March 17 – Pled guilty to DUI.
April 3 – Had a heart attack in jail, taken to the med, surgery.
April 6 – Discharged from the med.
May 7 – Took the states offer…Got out of jail at 8:45 PM.
May 8 – Sara and I spent a wonderful day together laying around and relaxing. We had several conversations concerning our past future.  There is a lot of love between us.
May  14 – My insurance officially did not work. I cannot fill my blood pressure medicines.
June 18 – My blood pressure is still high, but he let me go home.  Lost my job due to visa card purchases.
June 21 – Sara officially ended our marriage.
July 28 – I need to move somewhere where someone would pay me a little attention and show some concern for me.
July 29 – Spent the whole day in the room doing nothing as I am once again scared sh_tless and have become a recluse.  Was not able to eat anything as I did not have any money.
August 8 – Wish I would die.  I am very depressed and really have no desire to go on with life. If it wasn’t for my best friend Buckwheat I would not want to live. I am so lonely I can’t stand it.

His last entry would be in August, his print completely disfigured.  She could sense his pain as he wrote the entry.

August 11
– Found out where Sara really was this past weekend..with her boyfriend.

Julie scanned the rest of the journal for anything, but found nothing.  August 11th would be the last time he would write.  At the proverbial close of his life, she began to cry.  Someone’s words, someone’s feelings, someone's life was written in these pages.  She ached for this man.

Like a work of fiction, there were highs and lows, and each gave way to hope that he would rebound—come back and that things would start looking up.  But they never did.

Mr. Lamlich’s words came back to her.

He never read it much anyway.

Her fingers etched over the gold print on unused Bible.  If only he had known love, she thought.  True love.

She remembered when the pages of her own journals were filled with unpredictable hurt.  She remembered what it was like to be in a dark place, to have lost love.  To not want to go on.  She remembered the vivid ache, and her heart stung.

God had been speaking to her lately, almost calling her, preparing her for a life dedicated to this very purpose.  She felt passion rise in her for the homeless, the forgotten—the lost.  She wanted to save people—and, well, here was a glimpse at the true heart of man who had not known Him and died not knowing Him.

Save them, He said.  These are My children—the broken, the starved, the forgotten.

She closed the memoir on her lap, and prayed.

God, bring me someone in pain, someone hurting.  Bring me someone I can help.

Little did she know just how quickly God would answer her.

Retiring for the night, she opened her laptop to check her e-mail one last time.

Spam, spam, spam, crap, crap, crap, she thought.

She was moving so quickly down the screen, she almost missed his name.

“Hey!” greeted her in the subject line.

And as she stared in disbelief at the screen, it left her wondering how little of this message was by chance, and how much of it was God’s hand, her Father Above waiting to see his daughter’s response.

For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God (Ephesians 2:8).

For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Galatians 5:14).

But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him (1 John 3:17)?

Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you (Matthew 5:42).